Monday, December 29, 2008

Winter Break | Christmas Day

Christmas morning traditions in the Pietrangelo household involve mimosas, eggs, bacon, sausage, and cinnamon rolls for brunch, 1000-piece puzzles, a good movie and "opening" our stocking stuffers and "Santa" gifts.

Brunch was delicious! We all helped prepare...








Mom caught up with her family on SightSpeed (we'll have to post more on that another time).



Violet spent the stocking stuffer time stalking Grandma.











After a day spent lounging, napping and puzzling, we head to House of Dynasty for Chinese and yes, photos aplenty.





Winter Break | Christmas Eve

This year, it was Christmas with the Pietrangelos, which means a 7-fish feat on Christmas Eve. While in the past, Heath has balked at this particular tradition, this year my family worked to provide some Heath-friendly options.

Appetizers:
Crab dip
Jumbo shrimp
Oysters

Pasta:
Spaghetti with white clam sauce
Spaghetti with red squid sauce

Main:
Scallops
Bakala (cod)

Heath also participated in this year's feast, making his (now famous) caramel popcorn, the rolls for dinner, as well as the toast and cinnamon rolls for brunch.

Violet was, of course, full of the Christmas spirit. While we enjoyed our many gifts (Heath liked his Shiatsu massager from my mother best), she reveled in her present: Follow Your Instinct toys from Costco. The duck, hedgehog and skunk make "lifelike" noise and Violet just LOVED them. By love, we mean attempted to shake them to death in her mouth. :-)



Aunt Renee purchased Vio some very cute Christmas PJs...




The decorations at mom's place...




Behold, the best of the rest...










Susan Turns 30!

Before we post about Susan's party, we must acknowledge that several other good friends share a December 18th birthday, so Happy Birthday to James, Adam, Rick and Marissa!

So...

John did a great job of planning a progressive surprise party for Susan at the Third Rail, a fun bar in the West Loop. It started with her parents, us and the Johnsons, but then more of her friends continued to show up throughout the evening. Despite the snow (and there was a lot of it), plenty of people came out to celebrate with Susan and partake in half-price martinis.







We love you, Susan!

As Promised | Heath's Post-Exam Extravaganza

Unfortunately, the camera didn't come out as often as it should and we only have these three shots, but I can vouch for the fact that it was a great time. The party also marked the debut of Heath's homemade caramel corn...very yummy!



Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Heath Passed His Exams!

After an excruciating week between his written exams and oral exam, Heath and I traveled to South Bend for him to meet with his examiners: Mark Noll, John McGreevy, Jayanta Sangupta and Tom Slaughter. Yes, you read that right—Slaughter.

After an hour of grilling and just a minute or so of deliberation, they proclaimed Heath ABD (all but dissertation).

Yes, 220 books and dozens of anxiety dreams later, Heath is ABD. He will NEVER have to take another test again!

After he was done we headed over to the history department's holiday party and he got to share the good news with his friends.

The next step is getting his dissertation proposal together, but we'll let that wait until we're home from our holiday travels. In the meantime, the next big date on Heath's mind is Friday the 19th, the day of his post-exam extravaganza.

We'll have pictures to post from that later this weekend.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Photoshop Fantasy...

So when Katie Couric first took over the CBS news desk, there was some scandal over her promotional photos being "tweaked."

The evidence:


I thought this was silly until I had to have a new picture taken this week for the magazine's newly redesigned editor's page. In addition to having it color corrected and cropped, I asked for the full "Katie Treatment." Our photo editor in Duluth laughed at my request, but we'll see...

Here's a look at the "Before" and I'll keep you updated on the "After."

Monday, December 8, 2008

Closing Meditation

Hard to believe, but Heath taught his last class of the "Religious Experiences in American History" this Friday. It's been a wonderful experience and hopefully, one he can repeat next fall. Although the final class was dedicated in large part to evaluations, Heath offered this closing mediation to help bookend the year for his students:

Allow me to conclude our journey together, then, with a few meditations. We have come a long way: from sixteenth century Pueblo villages to Jerry Falwell’s Moral Majority. Looking back, what can we make of this tangled story? I hope by now it is clear to you that writing history is very different than constructing a timeline. Our narratives of the past inevitably reflect our own assumptions about what matters, who matters, and how the world really works. Two historians with the same research question can – and almost certainly will – write very different books. Does this mean that history is just whatever we say it is? Of course not. Evidence places real constrains on the historical imagination. But this being said, how one sees the story still depends very much on where one stands.

From my own vantage as a believing Christian, the story of American religious history appears often deeply tragic. There are certainly celebratory moments and maybe even chapters. The Puritans’ deep concern for the common good; the fact that women like Catharine Beecher spoke truth to power, even as Andrew Jackson moved forward with his despicable plans for Indian removal; the example of those missionaries who chose to walk the trail of tears with their Cherokee brothers and sisters, rather than desert them in their moment of need. There is the reality that Catholic and Jewish immigrants to this land found deep solidarity in religious communities, and also the witness of African Americans who found in the religion of their oppressors the way to overcome. These stories give me hope that perhaps, in some mysterious way, God is in fact at work on this side of the veil.

But there is much more to lament. The violent conquest of the Pueblo by Spanish katsinas. The callous enslavement of millions of Africans, who even at the moment of their baptism were forced to recant their own freedom. That even as evangelicals mobilized for abolition, they turned a blind eye to the wage slavery that was becoming ever more prevalent in their day. That white churches served as bulwarks of Jim Crow. That within all religious denominations women have been so often subjugated to men and homosexuals have so often been the victims of hate. That supposedly devout Americans live in large suburban houses with two luxury vehicles even as their sisters and brothers in this country and around the world die of hunger, thirst, and disease. In Bono’s words, paraphrasing the psalmist, “How long? How long must we sing this song?”

The most honest answer: I don’t know. I am after all a historian, not a fortuneteller. I don’t know how the relationship between religion and the American nation will continue to evolve; I don’t know how religious persons and institutions will shape – and be shaped by – the still unfolding stories of American democracy and global capitalism, of relations between persons of all races, classes, and genders. But I do know this: history is meaningless unless we are open to being changed by it.

So be changed. When in a hundred years someone writes your history, let it not be a story about how well you looked out for your own best interests. Let it not be a story about how you turned your back to injustice. Let it not be a story about how you lived the American dream – well-fed and well-clothed and well-educated and well-loved – even as others stood in desperate need. There is a better way, but it is certainly not the path of least resistance. Whatever your thoughts on God, on religion, or on history for that matter, I can tell you that there is no more difficult way to live than this: love your neighbor as yourself.